Have you ever experienced being passionate about something but your parents or spouse or friends are not convinced that it is the right cut for you? Of course, you may have assessed everything and have found this new job promising. Or you may have followed your instinct and the longing in your soul, but you know that not everyone is in agreement to your decision. You know deep down that this is the “one” job just for you.
But what should you do when all those you cherish don’t share your decisions?
Listen to Concerns
Give those who care for you a chance to show their concern. It is important to understand that some people raise doubts faster than a lightning bolt. Skepticism is common among people who may have failed or have seen others fall short in the very position you are in right now. In other areas, it could be that they are not too confident in the industry you pursue. There are many reasons for people to be concerned and the best to do is appreciate their apprehension while giving the whole situation a second look.
Evaluate Intentions
Another important matter to look into is the intention of those who seem to go against your decisions. While family members and true friends have your best interests at heart, some may also have been plotting against you. A friend from work may not support your decision as it may clash with his or her own agenda in mind. A family member may discourage your decision to focus on a business startup as it will be in conflict with his or her own plans. Some people carry double-edged swords thus, it is essential to take their advice with a grain of salt.
Do Research
It is important to do your research prior to embarking on a career path. While it is virtually laudable to go for your passion, it is also crucial that such passion can deliver the level of satisfaction to your needs. Some people mistaken their whims with too much enthusiasm that they easily grab at any opportunity coming their way. Impulsive decision-making is never a good thing. Always do your research and choose that path where you will most flourish as a professional or as an entrepreneur—and as a person.
Be Prepared—All the Time!
When thinking of choosing a path with certain risks involved, carefully plan on addressing such downside. Going into an entrepreneurial path, for instance, require that you know about cash flows and other financial management skills. So, why not go into training for the said skills or enroll in a class? Hiring a staff or getting a partner who can handle your “limitations” may also assuage their doubts.
You will easily fall into a tug-of-war with your own decisions and that of other people close to you when carving a career path. Fret-not, it is quite normal. Some people will always cast their doubts and fears like dangling a carrot to a rabbit. The key to not fall into such deathtrap is to develop your self-confidence and to widen your perspective so you can be firm with your decisions and eventually achieve your goals—and gain their respect.
